You Should Always Want to be the Adversary

It’s unfortunate that some people struggle because they can’t let things go and continue to carry anger and resentment. The truth is that they’ve probably never experienced true peace before, and that’s the really sad part. This is why that when they are presented an opportunity by their adversary to have closure in a situation they fail to realize the importance of that moment. Even when faced w/ continued anxiety and emotional toll, they are unable to accept an alternative of peace.

In this scenario the victory belongs to their adversary because they are able to walk away with complete peace of mind knowing they put forth their best efforts and did all they could do. Life is hard enough already without having to carry unnecessary baggage. It’s impossible to move forward when you keep having to look behind you

Oh, and a word of warning, never add anyone to your inner circle that you’ve never heard apologize or seen them mend a broken relationship. Their lack of maturity will become a liability to you rather than an asset. You will know good trees by the fruit they bear. It’s hard for us to move forward and grow in the absence of closure for things of the past, fortunately for adversary… they are released.

You should always want to be the adversary!